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My menifesto
Posted in Articles, breaking, Christ, Christianity, doctrine, God, Love, ME, people skills, theology, thoughts, touchingEveryone has something to teach and something to learn, regardless of their past or the present,
and deserves the chance to do both.
So yes, I am conservative, and YES I have ______ friends,
because any belief system that separates one person from another is evil,
its as simple as that,
My God is a Lord of Love, a bringer of healing and understanding among men,
MY God is a God of relationships-
God wants your relationship with him to be so good, so fulfilling that it effects the way you see relationships period.
If you have a relationship with God, pettiness shames you, backstabbing saddens you, lies and gossip enrage- you should always seek to offer the best of yourself to everyone around you!
Anything less is a slap in the face to any God you claim to worship.
I have very high standards for who I consider a friend, chances are-
you don't meet them.
Don't feel bad though, most don't.
A friend is someone I can trust with my life,
and the lives of others if it comes to it, my deepest thoughts, my finances, my cellphone, my boyfriend, and general mental health,
I can hand all of these things to my friend and go to Tahiti for a year with no worries because I know her/his character just as well as they should know mine.
Friends have boundaries,
we have things we DON'T talk about, things we wouldn't share and a friend knows when not to press certain subjects, not because we are hiding things, but because sometimes its not relevant.
Friends respect each other, they don't worship each other,
if we are not on even ground, we cant be friends, you have to be able to look each other in the eye.
You may ask my opinion on something, but its certainly not gospel,
so I respect your choice not to listen without getting angry, and I expect the same.
(although we can expect an occasional "I told you so")
We are not going to agree, but we will always put our relationship first in any conflict- bros before hoes has a good tang to it I think,
but a true friend will try their best to never put you in a position where you have to choose between someone you care about or them.
And the biggest, hardest thing, A friend knows when to let go-
because sometimes friendships fade, sometimes people change so that they no longer can be considered friends, and sometimes YOU change so much that you can't be a friend to anyone.
Also, sometimes they just don't talk for long periods of time because of life,
be mature enough not to freak out and they'll come back eventually, your too awesome to ignore!!
Being a good friend is a sacred thing, an honor, a burden and a trust, not everyone can be a friend and not everyone has one.
I'm tremendously blessed to have as many as I do :-D
Things that touched me today...
Posted in breaking, Christ, Christianity, doctrine, judgement, Love, songs, thoughts, touchingLuckily for you they were BOTH on youtube!!
This song is beautiful and so true to my experience
I hate hugs.
No really, I really hate them.
and back rubs too...
[IMG credit: don't touch me]
I'm not recovering from an attack but I feel the same way all the time, "creepy old it doesn't matter if its someone my age or an older person, male or female, I HATE to be touched.
(you can pray for me about this if you like, I do)
maybe its because I can feel the pity and and the CHARITY in the action,
my self doesn't WANT any help, we're fine, thanks, stay away.
and also its because you don't actually care...
thats right, I said it.
for some people touch means nothing but to me its alot.
My body is the only thing thats mine in this world, and I wont share it unless I want to.
on the other hand sometimes I really need a hug from a friend,
so what? I'm a girl, I can be weird ;-)
Salt of the earth and light of my life,
only now fleeing destruction and strife
too late,
you did not love me.
you did not like me.
There is something disgusting about Agape love...
Jesus KNEW each and everyone of us before we were born, so I believe he can love all of us like that.
but you?
You've never gotten on my level.
Never seen things the way I see them, never even tried.
how could you love me?
I wont believe it, I refuse.
Don't touch me.
